It was largely because of Bobbi and her guidance in her Fix Your Man Picker course that I met my husband. She guided us through the process of clearly defining what we were looking for. With that clarity, I was able to push away the cobwebs and know with more certainty what was important to me.
In January of 2016, I was going to the beach and asked him if he wanted to accompany me, just to have a pleasant outing. He said yes and, as I got to know him, our pleasant acquaintance became a romantic relationship.
I noticed that when I decided to marry him, the decision was made with both my head and my heart. We are as in love and committed as ever, and our first year wedding anniversary is coming up in May. Bobbi definitely helped make all of this happen. It was she who helped me see clearly who I am as a woman and what I wanted in a man. - Terra.
You see, YOU are the picker.
And men know it.
I can almost guarantee you that good men are flying under your radar. Men who could make you feel so happy, so safe, and yes...so excited!
(Good man does NOT equate to boring man!)
You CAN learn how to not only notice those good guys, but to be wildly attracted to them.
(I know that seems somewhat unbelievable, but you will see PROOF below!)
IMAGINE IF YOU COULD...
NEVER AGAIN WASTE YOUR TIME AND HEART on a man who can never love you the way you need to be loved?
TRUST YOURSELF to know which men to feel hopeful about and which to run from before they stomp on your heart?
START BEING WILDLY ATTRACTED TO THOSE 'NICE GUYS' who have turned you off in the past?
SPEND EVERY DAY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH A MAN WHO LOVES YOU, makes you his #1, and lives to make you happy?
WHAT ARE THE SIGNS
THAT YOUR MAN PICKER IS BROKEN?
THAT YOUR MAN PICKER IS BROKEN?
If...
You seem to always get dumped or men you like keep disappearing…your picker is broken.
You attract me-me-me narcissist types…your picker is broken.
You're dating but not interested in any of the men you meet...your picker is broken.
You think there are no good men left…your picker is broken.
You fall in love with men hoping they will change....your picker is broken.
And, lastly, if you aren’t meeting ANYONE because you're not dating at all, your picker may be completely out of commission!
Once you understand the science behind what compels you to choose men who can't love you...
and learn how to make choices with your grownup smarts instead of your fluttering heart...
you will know what those happily-coupled women know: there are attractive, exciting, good men all around you!
WHAT IS LIFE LIKE ONCE
YOUR MAN PICKER IS FIXED?
YOUR MAN PICKER IS FIXED?
"We are as in love and committed as ever, and our first year wedding anniversary is coming up..."
This is Shari...another Fix Your Man Picker graduate.
(With her camera-shy partner, Joe.)
(With her camera-shy partner, Joe.)
Ready to fix YOUR picker?
HOW THE FIX YOUR MAN PICKER
PROGRAM WORKS
PROGRAM WORKS
If you're ready, get started today. Within an hour of your registration, your training begins.
Each week for three weeks you receive emails with links to your video training sessions. You get additional coaching throughout to keep you focused and motivated.
Your Fix Your Man Picker program resources (training and coaching videos, session guides, and bonus materials) are available in the Date Like a Grownup Learning Center - forever. Any time the program is updated you get the update. No additional investment is required.
4+ hours of video training
Three sessions of engaging, 100% fluff-free, highly motivating coaching and training sessions.
These sessions were previously recorded with a small group of women who share your challenges, feelings, and dreams. You will hear them ask the same questions you want to ask. And you will hear Bobbi give her usual thoughtful, respectful, but straight-forward advice. (They don't call her The Compassionate Truth-teller for nothing!)
These sessions were previously recorded with a small group of women who share your challenges, feelings, and dreams. You will hear them ask the same questions you want to ask. And you will hear Bobbi give her usual thoughtful, respectful, but straight-forward advice. (They don't call her The Compassionate Truth-teller for nothing!)
Powerful real-life exercises
Bobbi has an extensive background in adult education. She knows how critical it is to anchor what you learn, as you learn, to your real life. This ensures that your LEARNing translates to DOing!
During and between training sessions, Bobbi gives you step-by-step instruction to guide you through simple, challenging, fun independent exercises.
During and between training sessions, Bobbi gives you step-by-step instruction to guide you through simple, challenging, fun independent exercises.
Detailed Guides and Worksheets
Every woman learns differently. For many, it's important that in addition to seeing the video training, you can follow along in writing and keep personal notes.
In your support guides you will also get detailed worksheets to guide you through the many interactive exercises.
In your support guides you will also get detailed worksheets to guide you through the many interactive exercises.
Guidance with Online Man-Shopping
Not only does Bobbi coach you on how to make good decisions about the men you meet, she guides you through a detailed online dating "man-shopping" review.
No more guessing who to write to or respond to. Learn how to tell if he has good-grownup-man potential.
No more guessing who to write to or respond to. Learn how to tell if he has good-grownup-man potential.
WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO LEARN
IN EACH TRAINING SESSION
IN EACH TRAINING SESSION
Discover what you've been missing all along: that you can be the one who chooses. (You are not at the mercy of a man picking you!)
Uncover how you've been making decisions and how that is exactly what has kept you single and frustrated.
Understand the SCIENCE behind what attracts you, how that stands in the way of love, and how to overcome your urges. (Start using your smarts and life experience!)
Learn to shift how you judge men so you start being attracted to (and attracting) high quality men with forever potential. (This transforms your love life!)
Create your new list of must-haves to use as a guide with every decision you make about who to give your time and heart to. (No more wasting time, second-guessing or settling for less than a man who adds joy to your life!)
Know the tangible, real-life signs to look for during dating and relationship that tell you whether he's a man with great potential or one you should run from.
Become an expert "online profile picker" by learning what to look for in men's profiles that tells you to make a connection or not to waste a minute.
Learn what good men really want so you finally understand why you're attracting the wrong men (or none at all), and what it really takes to attract the RIGHT grownup ones. (And now you'll know how to spot them!)
With the negativity ditched about what men want, see how you can be the woman high-quality men are searching for...just by being more of yourself. (You're going to be surprised to learn this.)
Create an actionable, personalized 60-day plan to get you out in the world having fun, meeting and choosing new, exciting, grownup men. (With my help, of course!)
Learn how to shift your judgments of men and use that wisdom to start creating your life-changing grownup list of must-haves.
GET THIS EXTRA
TRAINING AND SUPPORT
TRAINING AND SUPPORT
Learn Why Smart Women Attract Jerks
In this publicly unreleased webcast I teach what it is about YOU that jerks, users and narcissists just love!
More importantly, what you can DO to spot them, dump them and move on quickly with your heart and self-esteem firmly intact. (On to someone who deserves all you have to give.)
Get Answers to Why He Didn't Call
Finally understand the mystery of why men act interested and then never call. (Arrrgh!)
Also get my five must-do’s that, when followed, will mean you never again have to ask "what did I do wrong?"
Say goodbye to going down that rabbit hole, sister!
Also get my five must-do’s that, when followed, will mean you never again have to ask "what did I do wrong?"
Say goodbye to going down that rabbit hole, sister!
Community of
Women Just Like You
Women Just Like You
Fix Your Man Picker is a self-paced training course but you don't have to take the journey alone.
Your experience will be heightened when you join myself and other Grownup Daters in my safe, secret private Facebook community.
Your experience will be heightened when you join myself and other Grownup Daters in my safe, secret private Facebook community.
Imagine knowing exactly how to
SPOT, CHOOSE, AND ATTRACT YOUR ONE SPECIAL MAN...like Jeannette...
"I am now marrying wonderful man!"
Before working with Bobbi, I was feeling incredibly stuck. I'd been divorced for 3 years and fumbled around with online dating for months.
Working with Bobbi changed everything! Best part is, I am now marrying wonderful man! There’s NO WAY I would have given him a chance prior to working with Bobbi.
He supports me in ways I’ve never experienced before, we have a strong foundation of similar faith, and we meet each other’s needs – everything that really matters to me.
We are planning our wedding for summer 2017. I would never have seen the amazing man without her guidance.
Bobbi: Thank you for such an amazing gift. See you at my wedding! Happy days, - Jeannette
HERE IS HOW YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE IN JUST 3 WEEKS.
You will ...
Stop wasting time on the wrong guys and start making good choices that you can be proud of (like you already do in the rest of your life).
Stop second-guessing yourself whenever you fall for a guy, wondering if you're going to make the same dreadful mistakes again. (You won't after you finish this training!)
See the signs of a potential mate right away so you know when to pay attention or when to run; whether online or in person.
Get crystal clear about the type of man and relationship that will make you happy at this stage of your life. (Hint: it’s waaayyy different than when you were 25.)
Stop waiting for some fantasy man to show up and start seeing good men all around you.
Let the “mistakes of relationships past” stop haunting you and holding you back from choosing the right men.
Stop feeling hurt, confused and bothered by the wrong guys….so you can start feeling understood, safe and special with relationship-minded, grownup men.
START PICKING MEN WITH YOUR GROWNUP SMARTS NOW
Your investment is only
$97
(Regularly $147)
Your investment is only
$97
(Regularly $147)
This is the cost of one massage. Or a pretty quick trip to the grocery store.
Is being #1 to a loving man worth it?
Is being #1 to a loving man worth it?
THINK THIS CAN'T ACTUALLY WORK?
Here are more real women who have gone on to lovely, lasting relationships.
Here are more real women who have gone on to lovely, lasting relationships.
"Without Bobbi I would have missed the opportunity with this great man!"
Much to my surprise and when I least expected it, "C" has touched my heart. I almost passed him by, but Bobbi's man-picking training helped me to see that he was a good match for me. Outdoorsy, loves the performing arts, makes me feel safe AND understood...we have great, honest conversations!
Last weekend we decided to be exclusive and are both resigning our memberships on Match. We've started introducing each other to our friends. My closest friends like him a lot. "The best man for me that they have ever met" they said. Wow, after all these years. And all thanks to Bobbi! - Anne
Last weekend we decided to be exclusive and are both resigning our memberships on Match. We've started introducing each other to our friends. My closest friends like him a lot. "The best man for me that they have ever met" they said. Wow, after all these years. And all thanks to Bobbi! - Anne
The insights I learned helped me find the love of my life at 53 and I was a single, never married chick.
Thanks, Bobbi! Your own story and Fix Your Man Picker helped me realize I was not a failure but was just making some seriously bad choices. Today marks 15 months since D and I met. We are living together and happier than ever. -- Nancy
I’ve always longed to be cared for and cherished and now I’m with someone who does that.
Immediately after completing Fix Your Man Picker I started spotting kinder and more relationship-oriented guys. That was a big step forward.
Soon after, I met "Him." We are making plans for a trip to Italy in spring. I feel freer, more trusting and courageous to enjoy what I'm experiencing in this relationship. I can't tell you enough how much you've helped me. Not only do I apply what I learn from you to my life, but can't help but share it with my clients at work and friends. -Pat.
Soon after, I met "Him." We are making plans for a trip to Italy in spring. I feel freer, more trusting and courageous to enjoy what I'm experiencing in this relationship. I can't tell you enough how much you've helped me. Not only do I apply what I learn from you to my life, but can't help but share it with my clients at work and friends. -Pat.
HERE'S WHY FIX YOUR MAN PICKER -- AND MY COACHING -- IS DIFFERENT AND RIGHT FOR YOU...
You can find dating advice just about anywhere. But my coaching is different. I don’t waste your time with advice that only works for 20 and 30 somethings. You have unique challenges and I know them all too well.
I get what you're going through and WHY you're going through it...like no other dating coach does. I made so many bad moves and stupid decisions about men over the 30 years I dated, that I questioned myself constantly.
I turned it around on the men I met when it really was about me. I was embarrassed about making bad choices and silly mistakes – especially since I did it over and over.
Instead of reaching out for help, I kept doing the same thing: not dating for years at a time...then jumping back in and picking the leavers and narcissists. And all along I blamed men and expected them to change.
Once I figured out the common denominator to all of this craziness was ME, I worked with an expert to help me fix MY picker. Within months I met Larry, and 6 months later, in 2006, I became a first time bride at age 47.
I get what you're going through and WHY you're going through it...like no other dating coach does. I made so many bad moves and stupid decisions about men over the 30 years I dated, that I questioned myself constantly.
I turned it around on the men I met when it really was about me. I was embarrassed about making bad choices and silly mistakes – especially since I did it over and over.
Instead of reaching out for help, I kept doing the same thing: not dating for years at a time...then jumping back in and picking the leavers and narcissists. And all along I blamed men and expected them to change.
Once I figured out the common denominator to all of this craziness was ME, I worked with an expert to help me fix MY picker. Within months I met Larry, and 6 months later, in 2006, I became a first time bride at age 47.
You see how making this shift brought me so much happiness. And you see just a few of the women I've helped find their Mr. Perfect For Me.
So, don't wait. Join me and start choosing men with your Grownup Smarts instead of your 25 year-old fluttering heart.
The difference it will make in your love life will astound and delight you.
You have my love and support,
So, don't wait. Join me and start choosing men with your Grownup Smarts instead of your 25 year-old fluttering heart.
The difference it will make in your love life will astound and delight you.
You have my love and support,
P.S. All the advice, tips, techniques and game-changing information in this virtual self-study training is geared exclusively for women like you. Women who are over 40, smart and living the good life, but desiring their own grownup love story. Like I said, you have unique challenges...and also unique advantages. I can't wait to bring you in on the SECRET!
P.P.S. Really when you think about it... who better to guide you to success than someone who has “been there, done that?” Someone who tells it like it is, with a ton of compassion and just the right amount of tough love. Don't waste any more time, ok? Take action so you can start getting on with your Love Life.
P.P.S. Really when you think about it... who better to guide you to success than someone who has “been there, done that?” Someone who tells it like it is, with a ton of compassion and just the right amount of tough love. Don't waste any more time, ok? Take action so you can start getting on with your Love Life.
Fix Your Man-Picker
& Find Real Love
& Find Real Love
Stop choosing users and losers.
Start picking men who make you happy.
ENROLL - GET YOUR PICKER FIXED Start picking men who make you happy.
