Fear, pain, blame, boredom, self-criticism, self-doubt, hopelessness...I hear this from women daily and I lived it myself.
It's hard sometimes to stay hopeful and positive. It's even hard sometimes to keep liking men, right? :)
As much as we may try to stuff it or hide it, our cynicism, internal conflict, mistrust (of ourselves and of men), fear, past hurt...
it all exudes and creates energy that men can FEEL...and most of all, that YOU feel.
Try as you will to stay positive and tell yourself that you're doing all you can to find fabulous love...these layers of emotional junk get in your way of showing up as the kind, wise, interesting, compassionate and beautiful woman you are.
You see, THAT WOMAN is the one who will attract the Perfect Man For You.